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Are You Tired of dating Narcissistic people?

Are you tired of your relationships not working out? Are you living in the Bay Area and keep dating the same time of narcissistic people who make you feel like you are the person of their dreams one day and the next they are ignoring you, making you chase for communication, and giving you crumbs? These are not the people for you but somehow you keep finding yourself in the same dating pattern, but here at Healing Therapy Services we can actually help you date better and feel better. 

Here are some signs you've dated a Narcissist 

Feeling anxious or overly invested early in relationships
You find yourself thinking about the other person constantly, overanalyzing their texts, and worrying about where the relationship is heading often before it’s even started. Notice how they trigger your anxiety. 

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Narcissistic Partners disappear, ghost, or avoid deep connection
You experience a pattern where they appear interested and suddenly become distant or stop responding without explanation. They might avoid talking about feelings or shy away from commitment, leaving you confused and hurt. And when the narcissist comes bak its like nothing happened. 

 

The Narcissist makes you second-guess yourself and your worth

When partners pull away or act emotionally unavailable, you may blame yourself, asking “Am I too much?” or “Did I do something wrong?” This self-doubt can make it hard to set boundaries or walk away from unhealthy situations.

 

You repeat the same relationship mistakes
You notice that your relationships often follow a familiar script: initial excitement, followed by emotional withdrawal, miscommunication, rewarding and punishing you, lots of highs and lows. Despite how they treat you, you want to help and save the relationship.

We offer  therapy in San Jose and Campbell,CA 

  • A safe, non-judgmental space to understand your patterns

  • You’ll learn how to recognize red flags early, say no with confidence, and stop over-functioning in relationships. 

  • Guidance to identify healthier partners and connections

  • Skills to build a secure relationship with yourself first

  • We help you spot emotionally available partners faster and avoid the emotionally draining ones.

  • You’ll learn to notice the difference between chemistry and compatibility.

  • Healing from past wounds so you can approach love differently

  • Help you discover what you actually want in a relationship, instead of chasing after validation or settling for less than you deserve. 

  • Support for breaking trauma bonds and anxious-avoidant dynamics

  • Strengthen your self-trust, regulate your emotions, and become someone who doesn’t settle for breadcrumbs 

You're ready to date emotionally available people

At Healing Therapy Services, our therapists help you break these patterns by guiding you through the deeper reasons they exist. Many of the clients we support come in believing it’s “just bad luck,” but what we often uncover are learned attachment patterns, childhood wounds, and a history of feeling responsible for other people’s emotional needs.

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In therapy, you’ll learn to set boundaries without guilt and build emotional resilience so that dating no longer feels like a test of your self-worth. You’ll stop chasing narcissists who give you mixed signals and begin choosing relationships that feel mutual, steady, and safe. Together, we’ll work on rebuilding your self-trust so you can spot the narcissist red flags earlier and walk away from them with clarity, not confusion.

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