Availability for Individuals & Couples In Office or Online— Schedule Consultation
Healing
Therapy
Services
Tired of dating a Narcissist?
Are you tired of your relationships not working out? Are you living in the Bay Area and keep dating the same time of narcissistic people who make you feel like you are the person of their dreams one day and the next they are ignoring you, making you chase for communication, and giving you crumbs? These are not the people for you but somehow you keep finding yourself in the same dating pattern, but here at Healing Therapy Services we can actually help you date better and feel better.
The signs you've dated a Narcissist --from a therapist
Feeling anxious or overly invested early in relationships
You find yourself thinking about the other person constantly, overanalyzing their texts, and worrying about where the relationship is heading often before it’s even started. Notice how they trigger your anxiety.
​
Narcissistic Partners disappear, ghost, or avoid deep connection
You experience a pattern where they appear interested and suddenly become distant or stop responding without explanation. They might avoid talking about feelings or shy away from commitment, leaving you confused and hurt. And when the narcissist comes bak its like nothing happened.
The Narcissist makes you second-guess yourself and your worth
When partners pull away or act emotionally unavailable, you may blame yourself, asking “Am I too much?” or “Did I do something wrong?” This self-doubt can make it hard to set boundaries or walk away from unhealthy situations.
You repeat the same relationship mistakes
You notice that your relationships often follow a familiar script: initial excitement, followed by emotional withdrawal, miscommunication, rewarding and punishing you, lots of highs and lows. Despite how they treat you, you want to help and save the relationship.
can you have a healthy relationship with a narcissist
As much as you want to be loved and cared for in a relationship you cannot have a healthy and loving relationship with a narcissist. Narcissists prioritize themselves and their needs only--your needs are not a priority. Narcissists are manipulative and will gaslight and discard the person they date.
Yes, you can care for a narcissist but can they care for you back? The answer is no. Narcissists need to heal themselves but you cannot heal them or date them and think that your relationship will be successful.
​
If you want to learn how to be in a healthy and loving relationship then consider starting therapy to address these unhelpful dating patterns. If you are looking for therapy in Campbell and San Jose, our therapists can help.
Offering evening after 5pm therapy sessions in Campbell & San Jose, CA, weekends, and online therapy in California
Therapy to learn the difference between chemistry and compatibility
It's not uncommon for a narcissist to make you feel like you are their number one--and they're only one, but the relationship crumbles quickly. Learn how to spot the red flags with your relationship therapist and prevent yourself from dating a narcissist.
What you get doing relationship therapy with us:
-
Safe & non-judgmental space to understand your dating patterns
-
Learn how to spot the red flags early on from dating narcissits and emotionally unavailable people
-
Discover how to stop attaching yourself to the first person who shows up
-
Therapy helps you spot emotionally available partners faster and avoid narcissists
-
You’ll learn to notice the difference between chemistry and compatibility.
-
Healing from past wounds so you can approach love differently
-
Support for breaking trauma bonds and anxious-avoidant dynamics
-
Strengthen your self-trust, regulate your emotions, and become someone who doesn’t settle for breadcrumbs
You're ready to date emotionally available people
At Healing Therapy Services, our therapists help you break these patterns by guiding you through the deeper reasons they exist. Many of the clients we support come in believing it’s “just bad luck,” but what we often uncover are learned attachment patterns, childhood wounds, and a history of feeling responsible for other people’s emotional needs.
​
In therapy, you’ll learn to set boundaries without guilt and build emotional resilience so that dating no longer feels like a test of your self-worth. You’ll stop chasing narcissists who give you mixed signals and begin choosing relationships that feel mutual, steady, and safe. Together, we’ll work on rebuilding your self-trust so you can spot the narcissist red flags earlier and walk away from them with clarity, not confusion.
